Happy Women's Day :)

Awrite. So today, March 8 2012 is International Women's Day 2012. Anyway, Happy Women's Day every woman out there :) Wishing women will always be the ones who protect the world as it gets worse day by day. We can make differences. Keep fighting!

Men are here because women are here. Remember ;)

Bitter Memories In A Sweet Smile.

Her name is Alda. That's the way I call her. Full name, Aldarina Galfanora. My classmate. Absent number of 1, that's why she'll always be ready for everything that requires us to stand in front of the class and do some exercises. I never thought that she would be the strongest girl I've ever recognized until today. The strongest girl.

Last Friday, I went around Rungkut Industri to do my job as one of the 'fund-seeker' of 3FC. Car was driven by Fauzan, and I was accompanied by Daru and Nanda. On the way back to Smala, something so surprising, insipiring, and unbeliavable was told by Fauzan. First, I told them about a a big loss happened in Spensa in December. It was having two music teacher, one of them was very lovely, gone.  Mr. Benny Manuputty passed away on December 18 and Mr. Herman was gone on December 25. Then Fauzan told everything.

F : "Kamu tau Alda?"

B : "Aldarina Galfanora?"

F : "Iya."

B : "Kenapa?"

F : "Mamanya udah meninggal sejak dari dulu. Terus waktu kelas 6, papanya meninggal. Akhirnya dia tinggal sama Pakde-nya. Beberapa hari kemudian, 10 hari kalo ga salah, Pakde-nya meninggal."

B : (speechless)

Look at your self. Have you treated your parents well? I just can't put myself as her. She i s so amazingly strong. STRONG. Her mother left her when she was very young. When everybody's competing to give their mother the best gifts on Mother's Day, all she does is giving the best prayers for her mother up there. When we ask our father to teach us how to drive a car, she'll ask another person. Not her father. She is an orphan.

She always smiles. She never cried. She never asked for our pity.

A girl without mother and father can still smile even super bitter memories never leave. The hard life has turned her into a strong girl.

And me? I have mother and father. But, sometimes I do some things that disappoint them. Make them cry. I said they were tiring. Exhausting. But how my life will be without them? I'll be nothing. I've learned a lesson from Alda.

Life must go on. It doesn't care if it's bitter or sweet, good or bad. You've gotta smile and don't let the world see how much you've been hurt as it spins.

Hmm. Thanks Alda for the spirit you give me everyday :)

Thank Him for Your Life.

Yesterday, I read a newspaper whose a small article told about sexual abuse against child under 5. I was so shocked as it was said that the child was a girl of 4! Only uneducated people did disgusting thing like that, you know. The girl, who is unfortunately an orphan, was abused in forest by 2 crazy men. One thing I really cannot accept is that the girl now is hospitalized since a severe bleeding occurred in her vagina and, something was found not so far from her. It is estimated as her urinary bladder. 

Hopin' you can imagine how life has treated that girl badly. Sometimes life is not fair. She is an orphan, only a 4 year old girl who doesnt know anything but candies and chocolates and that crazy thing happened. People do worse things day after day. It hurts me, as a woman, how men treat women arbitrarily. They dont have rights to do it!  Even for a small one. And also, thank God for your life everybody. You can go to school, play with you friends, surf in the internet and many other things. They're more than enough. Actually, millions of people are willing to replace you to get those things you can do now. Life is cruel. It's true.

Strong Love Lasts Forever :)

Honestly, I dont know what to post. Lemme think. Okay. See this.

How beautiful is it? Sooooooo beautiful. God has prepared an invisible empty seat for our forever-and-always partner. If you think we're alone, single, or all those things called, WE ARENT! The prince will come :) A marriage, for me, is once in a lifetime. Choose the best one or you'll regret everything. No, Im not blaming everyone out there who are playing with gurls or boys, but they should have known. Everybody has a limit. Once you play one's heart, it takes long time to heal it. Hahah kelamaan jadi curhat nih *teringat kenangan masa lalu. Awrite that's all.

Cheeeeeerrrsss :)

Curhat.

Ya Allah aku capek di Smala. Capek. Aku cuma butuh istirahat. Udah. Nggak ada belajar, latihan, sama rakor. Kapan? Capek Ya Allah.